understand yourself~5 min

Audit your stress spillover

Which areas of your life are bleeding most into your relationship? Rate seven domains and find out where to focus.


How much does each area bleed into your relationship?

Work & career

Deadlines, pressure, difficult colleagues, job uncertainty

Family of origin

Parents, siblings, family history, obligations

Money & finances

Debt, instability, financial disagreements, scarcity

Health & body

Physical health, chronic issues, mental health, fatigue

Social & friendships

Social obligations, friendship friction, loneliness outside the relationship

Home & logistics

Household management, chores, admin, living situation

Life transitions

Big changes, uncertainty, loss, new phases